Stamina

Kimberly Dow · 04-25-2004, 02:12 PM

I found it a lot easier to stay on a painting schedule when I got the studio that is open to the public. I have other artists work hanging and that makes me responsible to keep the doors open certain hours - just like any secretary or banker that has to be to work at a certain time.

The house is messier, the kids have had to step up and help more - as well as my husband, but it is well worth it. If I do have to be gone then I try and make it up at night. I'll take a couple nights a week that I tell my husband (who complains, but I dont care) that he has dinner and baths and homework duty. He does all the 3 kids and I take off for the studio as soon as he gets home. Then I paint til 10:30 at night. I find that even if I am tired it is so nice to be painting that I dont need dinner or anything.

If you dont make time for it above the laundry and regular chores then you cant expect your family to take it seriously either. I learned that the hard way. I would complain and complain that I did everything here at home and still worked full time. The complaining did no good - when I just shut up and stopped doing it when it was time for me to paint they all stepped up to the plate and helped. They complain, but I just calmly tell them - too bad. We are family - not a group with a mother-slave - we all have to work to make it run smoothly. After all - if I am gone to the studio and they dont have clothes to wear the next day - then they will HAVE to do a load of laundry.

Geary Wootten · 04-25-2004, 03:44 PM

Ya, Kimberly, when my wife started working...I think we finally learned that lesson of ...."oh, need clean clothes and dishes?......then DO 'em!".....when I was about 40-something....the kids were like 20-something. It took us about a decade or so to catch on. So.....I'm no help at all here.

See.....the problem is, y'all are just so dang GOOD at what you do that....................

G......preparing for flak

Julie Deane · 04-26-2004, 07:37 AM

I can sure relate to this topic. I too work full-time. It's currently the busiest season in my schoolwork. In the past, I did no artwork and was miserable. This year it's different. For example, I went to the park and spent most of the day sketching the scenery and the bystanders. It was wonderful! I wasn't at home to get sucked in to doing the laundry, and I felt happy and recharged. Making the time even when it seems like there is no time works. The main housework still got done and the rest can wait.

Kimberly Dow · 04-26-2004, 08:50 AM

Gaery-

You wont hear any flak from me - I am too busy to try and train someone else's husband. I have all I can handle here trying to train mine.

Geary Wootten · 04-26-2004, 02:15 PM

Kim,

Thanks for sparing me my much deserved volly of fire! LOL....

The better news being here is that we are all doing what is necessary to have the "stamina" to continue painting....no matter what lies in the path to try and stumble us.

One of the things I've been doing lately, as a recovering heart patient, is to eat healthfully and exercise. I'm really getting into Juicing veggies and eating more fruit. I'm also drinking this stuff called Green Magma