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But...I do not think it has anything to do with how you earn your living. If I was a plumber and a close relative needed some work done I would not charge them if it was within my means to help...But I would not even have a problem giving a piece like that to a relative if it was a very special reason.
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If I were a plumber and I could help out a relative/friend with necessary work that they needed and it took a weekend of my time and (depending on need) some donated materials, I would probably do it. Indeed, "Habitat for Humanity" is one of my favorite charities...
But please understand my situation...I do not do "little sketches". If I spend weeks or months of my time (not earning money) and being "a good guy" by giving my paintings away to beloved relatives and my dearest friends...who in the heck will pay the college tuition for my children? Where will the money come from to pay my mortgage? Taxes? Medical insurance? There are those annoying little extras to consider also...i.e., food, car repair, etc.
Maybe, if/when I eventually get to "paint with the big boys in New York" and earn megabucks for my work, I'll be able to give a portion of my work away and not jeopardize the welfare of my immediate family.
But right now, what I "give away" is my knowlege about painting portraits to perfect strangers via this forum. I think that the world really needs better artists...(and it seems like a good use of my time when I need a studio break).
Right now I need ALL the income that I am able to earn by painting portraits. This is the first time in my life I have been able to "squeak by" doing what I want to do and I am loath to give it up.
Meanwhile, I really do admire your spirit of generosity
and would like to think that you do not make a harsh judgement about mine....